interesting though (and not to contradict your experience), the literature says trans people develop brain structures of their identified gender maybe it’s the life experience of being assigned female at birth that’s attractive? idk

like hella

okay so like

What I find incredibly fascinating, and therefore attractive, are people, things, ideas that I haven’t or will not be able to experience. I absolutely love people with entirely different backstories and I absolutely love to listen in. I find fascination where I can essentially live vicariously through someone else and find an entirely new perspective.

It’s why I took a bunch of psychology classes in academia, I find the human mind utterly fascinating, and in certain cases, attractive.